Monday, August 15, 2011

Simon Marcus: We Learn In Funny Ways

Simon Marcus is one of those quiet London heroes, running a boxing academy in Tottenham and Hackney, focusing on youth in danger of exclusion (or to use the US term, 'expulsion') from school.

His thoughts are eminently worth considering, because they ring so true.

We are a strange lot, the human race. We learn in funny ways. Once you break a taboo it is gone, once you break a boundary it is gone, if you get away with something and you enjoy it, you do it again. When kids attack teachers, (and it happens thousands of times a year) being sent to the cooling off room is pretty much a reward, a fixed term exclusion often makes no odds either. If a social worker tells a teenage mum the word ‘no’ emotionally damages a child, a message goes out. If an adult admonishes a gang of children for littering and gets a police caution a message goes out. If a father is reported to the police for smacking a child a message goes out. If an adult is arrested for grabbing a child who is stealing, or assaulting another child, a message goes out. If knife criminals receive community sentences, a message goes out. If people tell you about your rights as a child, and never about your responsibilities, a message goes out. If teenage girls are given flats for having babies a message goes out. If the police arrest you fifty times and nothing happens a message goes out.

A great week to all OS's readership. He is grateful for each and every one of you.

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